A conversation I have been having repeatedly recently is one
about hidden impairments. Not solely physical difference, but pain, different
ways of processing and being in the world. The last thing I want to do is bag
peoples experiences together, but there are some themes I would like to explore
in the next few short blog.. I anticipate not doing the subject much justice but
here goes…
The first of my frustrations is linked to dyslexia. Malcolm
Gladwell devotes a whole chapter to this difference in his recent book David
and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits and the Art of Battling Giants. I have
met a number of people with dyslexia over the past months and we all share a
similar frustration... For those for whom writing comes easily the sheer
impossibility of the task is incomprehensible. I've struggled myself, spending
hours explaining to teachers, tutors and colleagues what it is like. I have a
colleague doing their Masters currently, whose experience is telling and
probably not hugely unusual. She handed in an assignment to a tutor, who
proceeded to underline every mistake annotating the margins with the word
'awkward' over 18 times! Truth is there is no easy or technological way of
removing all the mistakes people with dyslexia make. Our language is so fluid when it
comes to meaning and writing itself is a deeply complex process – one requiring
learning - effort and practice. Thankfully, for many it becomes second nature,
but for others it remains as difficult as tying shoe laces one-handed. A task
so complicated there aren't enough hours in the day to achieve perfection... I
have improved, but without human help, faultlessness eludes! I pay for final
drafts - and I'm happy to have that luxury. My writing has got easier, but I'll
always struggle. Fact! No spell checker with ever be clever enough, sadly.
When my friend shared her experience I was stuck by the shame
highlighting her mistakes causes. As she did, I’ve felt stupid, deficient,
lacking! In educational circles we often talk of underachievement and gaps.
Rarely do we explicitly talk about the ordinary practice that causes real
emotional harm to some learners. I remember aged 11 being scolded for using ensevelit in a
French essay. I was deliberately using the word for dramatic effect, however my
teacher called it wrong. It took me
years to write again with any confidence. Yet still the highlighting of
mistakes remains a conventional way of working, despite the understanding
recent research throws on the differences in our brains. If your brain is not well wired to process
language then underlining a mistake is a pointless exercise. It's like pointing
a page out to a blind person.
As I progress through higher education, and become used to
its vagaries, I am struck by this very specific type of discrimination. In many
circumstances it appears that how people write is more important than what they
say. To me it is the same as asking a person with a mobility problem to run in
order to be taken seriously. Surely as authors of our own research, we should
be entitled to respect and dignity? If a ramp as an accepted accommodation
these days - then why are we not educating teachers and tutors to recognise
learning difficulties in the same way?
Ruminated
A second conversation I keep having
is around mental health. The people I've spoken to all have had episodes of ill
health. Like me they've come to realise that before these difficult times we
had no idea how mindscape altering illness can be, I was self congratulatory
over my approach to such differences, but in fact my understanding was so off
the mark! There are insights that only personal experience will enable. It was
like living with a faulty map of both my inner and outer world. Not quite sure
of reality, the usual filters were all wrong. In other words, I could no longer
trust my instincts, or often had to realign my thoughts by challenging my
feelings. Hugely energy consuming, painful and prone to error. The best
metaphor I can think of is a jeep my husband once drove at a tank experience
day. The controls were reversed - so to turn left you had to steer right ... He did well while he was thinking, but would
occasionally go onto autopilot and the car would leave its tracks.
Finally, and more generally, I'm
always astounded when people without your condition or no expertise in the
field give advice... I've had my many impairments and conditions for years. My
knowledge about them isn't that of a physicians but I know a lot about what
works for me. It may just be that given the available time, resource and energy
I'm doing the very best I can? That with multiple impairments and some hidden
conditions this my best!? Alternatively, let's just take a minute to flip the
coin couldn't I ask those with less
balls in the air to grant me a little leeway or understanding ?? If we were in
I world that valued effort, kindness, honesty and compassion?
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